I kicked myself when I got into the city and realised I’d forgotten to wear my new favourite scarf. I think the outfit works without it but the scarf added something… I’m not sure what… oh wait. I know. Warmth!! I was so freaking cold taking these pictures!
This is my first real “put together” maternity outfit. I’ve been unconvinced by maternity wear, not sure if it’s a waste of money. I bought myself this shirt from H&M and I’m so glad I did. Putting on a well fitting item of clothing can really help you feel good. I’ve not wanted to post outfit pics because I’ve not really been happy with what I’m wearing, but on this day I felt like myself again and loved it. I’m not going over the top with maternity wear because I still think it can be a bit of a waste of money (except the jeans, they are so comfortable I just want to live in them forever). But having a few nice items in my wardrobe is going to be important for me I think.
Toning was always a step I overlooked. Recently though, I’ve been taking better care of my skin and adding toning into my routine. Funny thing – my skin is better for it. The extra TLC I’ve been giving it works.
Until recently I was using quite a harsh toner. It was very drying and although it did help improve my pores and reduce blackheads, it made my face red and patchy. I hate wasting products but I didn’t want to have come a long way with my skin to just have it be red and damaged by my toner. So I went on the hunt for something better.
I’ve heard a lot of good things about Lancôme skincare so searched the Feelunique website for toners in their range. They have a lot to choose from but I settled with the hydration tonic.
It’s wonderful. So refreshing, cooling and calming. Great after a face mask or exfoliate as it’s super hydrating too. It’s got a good consistency (think gravy?) and a little goes a long way.
I apply it with my fingers and take some time to really massage it into my skin and enjoy the cooling temperature and calming smell. On the bottle it says ’tissue off’ honestly I don’t know if that means you need to wipe it off after but I find it soaks in so there’s no need?
I’d recommend not using a cotton pad to apply as you end up losing a lot of the product to the cotton wool.
I’ve seen a lot of people doing a kind of seasonal bucket list and I really like the idea. It can be really easy to miss out on the changing seasons, what with work and life taking up so much time. Having a small list of things you’d really like to do and planning time to do them is a great way to ensure you really appreciate your time. It can be so easy to make no plans and waste a weekend or day off. Here’s my Autumn to-do list!
Have a snuggle picnic. I totally made up the name of this. I wanted to go for a picnic during the summer and never did. So I’d like to pack up loads of blankets and cushions and snuggle up in a park with an autumnal picnic!
Bake Parkin and/or Gingerbread. Parkin is a traditionally northern English cake or biscuit. Like gingerbread but made with black treacle. Perfect for nibbling around a bonfire.
Go fruit picking. Any Norwich based folks with tips on where to pick fruit hit me up!
Have a dinner Party. For me, Autumn feels like the perfect time to fill your house with friends and delicious food.
Carve a Pumpkin. Ok so it’s cliche but I do love carving pumpkins and it lends itself perfectly to my last one…
Make pumpkin pie (and make mum try it). I love pumpkin pie and it shocks me that my mother has never had it. (although that would explain why I never had any until my 20s). This year I’ll be sure to get mum to try some. This is my favourite recipe
It’s taken me to the end of this list to see that I obviously like food in Autumn…. All food based!
This summer brought with it a lot of change and a lot of excitement. Of course my birthday should be the highlight of summer for everyone around me, but this year we had other things to celebrate.
Since I’ve been married I have been sharing my husband with another being. I think it’s fair to call it a being because it’s taken up so much of his time and energy, has caused us excitements, stresses and disappointments. This summer my husband finished his PhD and is now officially Dr Mundy. We attended his graduation in Manchester and it felt like some kind of birth/funeral hybrid.
This trip also brought with it another excitement, driving. Earlier in the year I passed my driving test (second try, all the best drivers pass second time). We bought an old car from a work friend and the 5 hour drive from Norwich to Derbyshire was the first long drive I made. I had to do all the driving, it was equal parts exhilarating and terrifying.
We moved house (again. We have lived in a different house for every year we have been married). Moving brought us closer to our allotment from which we got our first (and last) harvest! We’ll still be eating the potatoes at Christmas. We also abandoned the idea of an allotment in favour of a container garden.
Plus there was A LOT of great coffees and brunches with Laura from Rose and Weston. More of that in Autumn please!
This jacket has been one of my favourite things this summer, and I’m looking forward to getting more regular use out of it in Autumn. I bought it the very day these photos were taken. It was the evening of a work do, when I got into the city and felt that, as comfortable as I was, I look a little scruffy and not good scruffy. I popped into Next and there was the jacket, on sale, £16 down from £45. What more can you ask for! I got it a size up for extra oversized-ness. It helped give my outfit a more ‘put together but relaxed’ look.
Does anyone not like brunch? I feel as though everyone must love brunch… Have a lie in, stroll into the city and eat breakfasty or lunchy foods, depending on your preference! And going for brunch with a friend? Even better.
A few weeks ago a friend and I went to Wild Thyme in Norwich, a great veggie/vegan place. She’s vegan and I really shouldn’t eat dairy so having pretty much a whole menu to choose from is always a big deal for us.
We stared off with Spice Turmeric, Oat Milk Lattes which were heavenly. Ten times better than the classic Chai Latte and I’m a big fan of the Chai Latte.
Of course, even in a restaurant with a menu full of delicious vegan foods, we both still wanted things that contained dairy. Our lovely waitress offered to pop to the shop downstairs and pick up some dairy free yogurt for us.
I’ve eaten in Wild Thyme a lot and I can honestly say I’ve never been disappointed with the food or the service. It’s a beautiful location and they have kept the ambiance inside in keeping with the courtyard outside.
In terms of price, it is a little more on the pricey side but it’s definitely worth it. Nice for a date, a meal with the parents or just a fancy brunch date with a bestie.
What would you take with you if you were going to be away from home for nearly two months? Over the past few weeks I’ve been packing and re packing suitcases and boxes trying to decide what the most important things in my life are.
We are moving house, we’ve done it before but never on this scale and it’s normally been a fairly basic move from one house directly into another. We’ve moved boxes of books and cases of clothes with the help of friends and relatives. This time we are moving across the country, cats and furniture in tow, to a house we applied for without seeing with our own eyes.
In July I applied for a transfer at work. We thought things would take a little time to process, we were right, but then everything seemed to happen at once and they wanted me in a different city asap. Our house in Derbyshire is preventing us both from moving to Norfolk for a few months so I’m staying with my parents until we are free to move into our new place.
How do you pick what you need to be happy? Without wanting to sounding too soppy, how can items replace the happiness I gain from simply being with my husband and our pets. I think I’m going to learn a lot about myself having only the bare minimum of my stuff with me for a while. Already I’ve learnt that I want what I can’t have. I’ve brought books, knitting and games with me, but of course, I want all the other books, knitting and games that I have back home instead. I’m trying to think of these weeks as an opportunity to finish the unfinished and I think it will be good for me.
It’s kind of like my ‘Desert Island Stuff’. Six books, 3 knitting projects and my laptop.